Crone: Wise, Empowered, Self-Defined

Crone: Wise, Empowered, Self-Defined
Copyright C 1996, 1998 Bayla Bower

The crone eludes precise definition. Some traditions, organizations, and
individuals variously define the crone as a woman who is 50, 52, or 56,
post-menopausal, consciously aging, willing to acknowledge her shadow. Crone
is a term used to describe an ancient archetype, an aspect of the triple
goddess (maiden, mother, crone), and the third phrase of a woman's life.
When a woman is near, in, or past menopause, she is potentially a crone. The
designation refers to a perspective or point of view rather age or
biological change.

A woman who calls herself crone is willing to acknowledge her age, wisdom,
and power. Through conscious self-definition, she helps to reverse hundreds
of years of oppression, degradation, and abuse aimed at old women. Although
she may prefer to be called elder, grandmother, or wise woman, she does not
dismiss, disavow, or use pejoratively terms such as crone, witch, or hag.
The wise woman/crone/grandmother realizes that the true meaning of these
terms, and the woman-centered traditions from which they originate, have
been obscured and distorted by patriarchal systems.

In ancient times, the crone was revered as an old woman who embodied wisdom
and knew the truth of cyclic existence. Crones cared for the dying and were
spiritual midwives at the end of life, the link in the cycle of death and
rebirth. They were healers, teachers, way-showers, bearers of sacred power,
knowers of mysteries, mediators between the world of spirit and the world of
form. In prepatriarchal societies, women's wisdom had healing power, and
crone wisdom was the most potent of all. For nearly thirty thousand years,
old women were strong, powerful sources of wisdom. Crones were respected and
honored in their communities.

Then patriarchy demanded obedience to outer authority and acceptance of
linear concepts. Death became a finality, the end of the line. Because
crones followed inner guidance and knew the truth of the cycle of life, they
were dangerous to the hierarchy. Old women were persecuted, shunned, and
denigrated. Although our forecornes resisted, persisted, and adapted in any
way they could, most of our traditions have been lost. The lineage of crone
teachings, herbal remedies, sacred practices, and wise-woman ways was broken
when the information was burned, buried, and otherwise silenced.

Crone consciousness is on the rise today, spreading in a grassroots movement
through America and around the globe. We are awakening the ancient crone
within ourselves, and learning to trust the power of our inner knowing. We
will not become invisible, trivialized, or shamed by a society obsessed with
youth and terrified of aging.

We honor each person's wisdom, and take part in dismantling the ageist,
ableist, racist, classist, sexist, heterosexist, and other hierarchical
structures that separate us from ourselves, our forecrones, one another, and
our connection with all beings. We teach, speak, and quietly inspire one
another, all women, and all peoples who wish to embrace the totality of
life.

We respect the crones who preceded us and pass on our wisdom to those who
will follow. We tell our sacred stories one-to-one, in small and large
gatherings, at meetings, events, and conferences. We name our blessings and
challenges, the truths and treasures of our lives, sharing the harvest of
our life experience. Empowered from within and strengthened by our growing
numbers, we claim our place as wise-woman elders in our families,
communities, and groupings. We are women of age, power, and wisdom. We are
honored to be known as crones.